Why Is It Okay to Lose Me?

Why Is It Okay to Lose Me?What happens when the woman who stays, sacrifices, loves deeply, and remains loyal… still isn’t chosen?In Why Is It Okay to Lose Me?, A.M. Girtman tells a raw and deeply personal story about love, abandonment, survival, and the painful journey of learning self-worth.This book is not just about relationships.It is about the patterns we accept when we are searching to be seen.Through moments of vulnerability, hard truths, and spiritual reflection, Girtman opens the door to conversations many women carry silently:• Loving men who are unavailable• Accepting second place when you deserve first• The guilt of motherhood while trying to survive life• Growing up without a father and searching for that love in the wrong places• The emotional weight of loyalty that was never returned• Abuse, survival, and the long road back to yourselfThis story does not hide the messy parts of healing. It shows the reality of what happens when a woman finally confronts the question she has been afraid to ask:“Why is it okay to lose me?”More importantly, it shows the moment she stops asking that question and begins reclaiming her power.Blending personal storytelling with spiritual reflection, Why Is It Okay to Lose Me? is a testimony of growth, accountability, and the courage to release what no longer chooses you.If you have ever loved someone who could not love you the same way…If you have ever questioned your worth…If you have ever had to rebuild yourself from the inside out…This book will speak to you.Because sometimes the greatest freedom comes when you finally say:“I release you. But more importantly, I release me.” Read more